-Intellectual Capacity-

Relationship- An Analysis

Humans are social animal. We are by far the most complex living organism created (or evolved) in the animal strata.Hence, it is not suprising to see many relationships that exist between the interconnected human society often ending-up sprained, in a way or so. This eventually have ignited the flame in many other branches, instigating severe problems such as war, religious intolerence, and a stunningly high rate of divorce among citizens particularly in the developed nation.

First off, the understanding of the term "relationship" lies on the fact whether, we as the creation of the Ultimate one are able to inter-"relate" the emotions that is playing deep inside. The very reason why i inkled this statement is to allow you, folks reading this- To have a deep thought why we cry. Crying is process unique by its nature. It's a paradoxical way of showing the emotion,because we cry for both reason,be it happy or the state of agony. Do you see Yin-Yang beaming through? With that mentioned, the key for any successful relationship lies on the "mutual" give-and-take policy, in which is sorely lacking.

It's cool if someone calls you a loser. After all, it takes another to recognize the other. It is absolutely fine if you decide to back-stab someone, but do make your grey cells realize that The Karmic effect is powerful one.In any successful relationship, arguments must take place, but very soon a conclusion needs to drawn out. Those words preached during an argument could be so menacing, piercing through a bloody sense called feeling, but you need to take a stand. After all, if you are a rationalist, you would definately sense that senseless argument should be cut off.

Another issue is definately deals with "love". Being loved or making "love" would definately serve as a sensual delight be it physically or emotionally.To make it clear, please note that it is not a bullock statement that i am making here. Psychoanalysis studies have revealed people tend to think creatively when they are taken by the love aura( Madigan,1977). However, Love is a Verb, not a noun which directly translates that love has a middle name termed as commitment. The failure to realise this often leads to catastrophic impacts, in most cases-break up. Why is this so? Many love marriages fail because the people involved could not accept the way one is.

Nisha:Why you keeping me in a misery?
Navin : If money is your concern, what did you marry me in the first place?
Nisha: Hey,you didn t talk to me like this the last time. You have changed,dear!
Navin: I m very shocked to hear this- you failed me!
Nisha: You got it wrong-It's the vice versa
Navin: We are not getting along, we need a solution. SOON!!!

See? A common scenario that is taking place in a newly wed couple- who fail to give emotional support to one another.Now could you draw out the conclusion if there's no one the guide them? It happens very frequently-I must say. I am in no position to say this, but please be careful while commiting yourself into a lifelong commitment( in this case aka Love). It's not about pleasing your friends who thinks that having a bf/gf is cool. It takes effort and effort is not existent without the companionship of sacrifice. I have some great friends who are doing very well with their respective partner.So also not this post is not a mere generalisation.

Cheers my friends


Nav



Ps- I m no preacher!!!

posted by Naveen @ 12:11 am