A reflection to Future
One of the most intriguing concept that life has to offer to men, the species that could think is "failure". Very often, i'm greatly subjected to this term. The impact,would, of course create some of the deepest wounds which words of consolation nor sympathy couldn't cure. However, the subject here is written to analyse why we, representating mankind (in gemeral) couldn't deal with failure. We consume happiness like an oonephile who loves wine and treat failure as an omen.
Failure is a very potential cure for sadness. Though this may sound rather unlikely, the problem that leads to this likely thinking cames from the subjectivity of a person. The state of agony, sadness, and isolation is very often rooted to one primarily cause-Failure. In most scenarios that i've been subjected to, people are unable to threat failure as a part of the most mysterious puzzle waiting to discovered. We lack patience, generally. Hence, The mad rush over a race called "life" often comes with a very heavy prize. We prepare with a positive tone to face the better part of the race, but never pay a glint of attention to other side. Eventually it gives a negative name for the term "failure".
Not many of us would agree that both failure and gain should be placed equally. After all we're all plain masochist-cum-bigot who are not ready to face the actual stuff. When sadness attacks us in a very bad way, we are tend to be drawn to take away our own life(suidical, bipolar attacks). It often boggles my mind to see how far the extend would reach. Don't these group of people realize that solutions are aplenty?How could this act serve as the solution?
The first rule, from my humble point of view would be to deal failure as a friend that would pay you a visit, occasionally. The aura should, hence, always be set in a positive tone. Sometimes bitterness would serve you a little good( Well, bittergouts are still disliked by many despite its medicinal benefits to prevent diabetes). It wouldn't kill you in a blow, but it eventually sets out the path for better things to occur. God is not a fool, He watches and knows exactly when to reward the right person, for He is the greatest provider of All.
Have a nice day, everyone
Nav
Modem0-Mania
My modem is
yet again taken by my mum for the act of overly using the computer. She firmly assures me that she would return it back to me when i get adequate sleep. I tried to prove my stand that teens (like most of us) enjoy the computer more then anything else (*coughs*) but she vehemently wants to prove her point that i might start to get bald by 25 if i tend to stare at the computer excessively. She doesn't want to bring me to
Yun Nam Hair services either because she believes the petrol price might as well hike up when i m 25. So, yeah, i m illegally typing this from a cyber cafe located nearby- I gave an excuse that i'm going cycling at 7.00am but ended up pigging out in a restaurant- feasting some 1000 Kj of roti canai and then straight headed to this cafe.
Until the time permits i shan't post any issues. Have a nice day everyone and happy birthday to keshani aka Keshi who is celebrating her birthday on 25 th of June.......
Cheers
Ps----- If you expect this to be a joke after all, i suggest you get a MRI because i don t talk ****, literally
Nav
Pertinence and Entertainment--->Movies(General)
I must be seriously lacking some sense to come up with a pompous statement- That movies are not a tool of entertainment. For God's sake, it would be the biggest mistake that i've commited, by saying such. The reason this post is written by me is to castigate some truths(or myths) that is woven within the scope of movies.
It is a well-known fact that a production of a movie is
supposedly serve as a vehicle of entertainment, for the fact that we also know that entertainment may come in many other means which shan't be disclosed here. At the merge of technological advancement, the possiblities that underlays here somewhat seems to be non-existent, to me, at least.I would not never deny the fact that a good entertainment is a medium between hecticness and pure bliss. However, entertainment without the emphasis on realism is never my
ala forte. It is not a hypothetical statement for me to say that movies today are just being mass-manufactured, despite the lack of essential dose of realism,for what many may seem to agree that it is never an important element in a movie.
The concept of realism is a very broad term,hence it would always remain as a mere concept. Realism, is the best ingredient that a good movie director should always include make the effort work.Just like foods, prepared with relentless effort to appeal our tongue,failure to include salt,even though, a very little portion, it is pretty much tasteless. Therefore,realism in movies, is indeed a tool of perfection to bridge realms of reality and fantasy .
I did not merely write this post to come up with my favourite list of good movies. To do that, it would simply create a slight scent of biasness, no matter how much i'd try to justify my stand.Let's take a peek on the qualities of a good movie.Besides, immaculate realism that doesn't overly go aboard, another integral part would be the ability of the movie to convey a message effectively, though the issue may deal with subtleness.
Forrest Gump,for example was fine testamony that served as a great tickle to men who are intellectuality superior, in a humorous manner. It also makes it clear that hedonistic pursuits wouldn't mean that much, if you don't live for the sake of pride.Ego, after all, has driven men into his own ruins for centuries.The director's ability to remain sincere was of course another added bonus. Now, tell me- what do you go for movies which doesn't make you think? My conviction would be that-Entertainment should also make you ponder.Call me eccentric. I don't care because i know that my intentions are pure. (
The image for example, is to relate that racism should be blind and the urge to adopt the fraternity bond. ) We watch and hence we talk about the appeal of the movie, which in most cases deals with "obnoxiousness" or maybe it's just that we are being "lil" bit euphoric here.
The idea, should be always to have a thought on how a movie connects to our soul. Always generate some ideas. Who knows, it might well be your tool to liberate your soul ( as opposed to the malaysia-nised concept that movies help to ease yourself. Heck, what has stress have to do here???). We never stop thinking, do we???
Nav
Relationship- An Analysis
Humans are social animal. We are by far the most complex living organism created (or evolved) in the animal strata.Hence, it is not suprising to see many relationships that exist between the interconnected human society often ending-up sprained, in a way or so. This eventually have ignited the flame in many other branches, instigating severe problems such as war, religious intolerence, and a stunningly high rate of divorce among citizens particularly in the developed nation.
First off, the understanding of the term "relationship" lies on the fact whether, we as the creation of the Ultimate one are able to inter-"relate" the emotions that is playing deep inside. The very reason why i inkled this statement is to allow you, folks reading this- To have a deep thought why we cry.
Crying is process unique by its nature. It's a paradoxical way of showing the emotion,because we cry for both reason,be it happy or the state of agony. Do you see
Yin-Yang beaming through? With that mentioned, the key for any successful relationship lies on the "mutual" give-and-take policy, in which is sorely lacking.
It's cool if someone calls you a loser. After all, it takes another to recognize the other. It is absolutely fine if you decide to back-stab someone, but do make your grey cells realize that The Karmic effect is powerful one.In any successful relationship,
arguments must take place, but very soon a conclusion needs to drawn out. Those words preached during an argument could be so menacing, piercing through a bloody sense called feeling, but you need to take a stand. After all, if you are a rationalist, you would definately sense that senseless argument should be cut off.
Another issue is definately deals with "love". Being loved or making "love" would definately serve as a sensual delight be it physically or emotionally.To make it clear, please note that it is not a bullock statement that i am making here. Psychoanalysis studies have revealed people tend to think creatively when they are taken by the love aura( Madigan,1977). However,
Love is a Verb, not a noun which directly translates that love has a middle name termed as commitment. The failure to realise this often leads to catastrophic impacts, in most cases-break up. Why is this so? Many love marriages fail because the people involved could not accept the way one is.
Nisha:Why you keeping me in a misery?
Navin : If money is your concern, what did you marry me in the first place?
Nisha: Hey,you didn t talk to me like this the last time. You have changed,dear!
Navin: I m very shocked to hear this- you failed me!
Nisha: You got it wrong-It's the vice versa
Navin: We are not getting along, we need a solution. SOON!!!
See? A common scenario that is taking place in a newly wed couple- who fail to give emotional support to one another.Now could you draw out the conclusion if there's no one the guide them? It happens very frequently-I must say. I am in no position to say this, but please be careful while commiting yourself into a lifelong commitment( in this case aka Love). It's not about pleasing your friends who thinks that having a bf/gf is cool. It takes effort and effort is not existent without the companionship of sacrifice. I have some great friends who are doing very well with their respective partner.So also not this post is not a mere generalisation.
Cheers my friends
Nav
Ps- I m no preacher!!!
